"This Black Woman"

Is it racist that I referred to Jennifer McLune as "this black woman" to Milla who did not know her? Obviously not. Then Jennifer changes what I said from "this black woman" to "that black woman, wanting her misrepresentation to be packed with all the negativity when Clinton said it. She even puts quotes around it. She uses this misrepresentation to build the case for what what a victim she is. The only problem is that is not at all what I ever said. This is a common pattern of diversion Jennifer uses which I will go into more.

In Jan, 2009 Milla drug out this private chat from 2006 written from me to her. It's supposed to prove some horrible racist act. You'll have to interpret it as you see it.

Here's the context:
Jennifer was lying about some radical feminists on her list saying we were supporting racism. We were not. Here's the exchange. At that time Jennifer posted to the list encouraging others to take this information to the internet and spread it (See previous link). The information was not true. She accused me of being racist for asking her for the documentation. I was concerned about this false accusation at the time. I had not done what she accused. At that time, tho not any longer, I was even devastated by the unethical way these accusations were handled and how there was absolutely no accountability of Jennifer McLune's part about her dishonesty.

Even at that time, even though I did like and care about Milla at that time, I did not trust her enough to send the lengthy email exchange because it included many names and private email addresses that I did not want her or anyone to have to protect the privacy of the women who wrote the emails. Fortunately, and I believe this is accurate, I made the decision not to send the exchange to her. This was the email list and names of all of Jennifer McLunes mailing list and I not only protected their privacy, along with Jennifer's, with Milla but also I did not reveal their email addresses or names most recently when the exchange was published most recently on The Lie Detector. I removed all the names and email addresses from the CATWa List as well as the women from Jennifer's list.

Milla and Jennifer have now made an issue of me saying "this black woman" during that chat exchange. I said "this black woman" for two reasons. The first being that I did not want to reveal Jennifer's name to Milla because of Milla's strangeness and the second being that I was not aware if Milla knew Jennifer. There was no racism in me saying "This black woman..." or a few sentences later when I wrote, "the black woman said to spread it far and wide on the internet. Since I was being charged with racism Jennifer's race was relevant to the statement. How one person can refer to another person who they don't want to name because the other person does not know them and also to keep any particular individual out of the conversation. Said matter of factly there is no other way that I can see that the sentence could even be said, and it's absurd to name it racism. Besides, if it really was racism Jennifer would not have had to change it to "that black woman" when I said nothing of the kind.

Yet Milla maintains we were talking in a "white person's club" with a total lack of sisterhood. Milla is known to be a white racist who has been totally ignorant about race. If she thinks she was in a white person's club then she had the obligation to get out of it, but that is not at all what was going on with me. She certainly didn't have access to any information, much less enough to even ask intelligent questions at that time. Total ignorance? Perhaps on her part, but certainly not on mine.